Moving back to "The City"

Are you ladies fans of the MTV show "The Hills?"

I'm not gonna lie, if nothing else is on I'll watch it, but I'm not a die hard fan as some of my friends are - I'm terrible at keeping up with television shows! I don't watch it for the drama it is known for, but instead I tune in for all the cool fashion things that Lauren and Whitney are apart of. As a fashion student myself, it's what I live for! My favorite character is Whitney because she's always so poised, well spoken and extremly fashionable - I almost died when I heard the rumors that she was getting her own spinoff show about moving to New York and working for Diane Von Furstenberg (any fashion student would die for that job)...and of course I'm sure there's going to be some drama in there, but I just wanna see the shoes, lol. As a surfed the internet today, I came across the trailer for Whitney's upcomming show called "The City"...and I died...




....but anyway, this post is about the big move that I might be making after I tie the knot - I might be moving back to New York. I moved to South Florida a few years ago with my mom after her and my dad were seperated - I kind of wanted to be in a new enviornment and basically I can't live without my mommy, lol. I met my fiance in April of that year and then moved down to Florida in July, in November of that same year we started a long distance relationship and after a year of torture he left his life behind in New York to move down and be with little old me. Once being down here it was hard for him to come to terms with his paycheck. Although he works for the same company with pretty much the same job description, his paycheck doesn't come close to what it was in New York. Once in a while he'll bring up the fact that we should move back, I would always say "maybe when I finish school" - but boy does time fly - I'll be done with school Sept 09, and we're planning the wedding for Nov 09, so now he wants to go pretty much right after the wedding. His reason is that he feels that financially he can be a better provider in New York - and to top it off, his former boss is waiting for him with open arms to give him his position back. But I don't know...I've been spoiled with the sunshine and am not sure if I'm ready for the snow again.

In our debates on whether or not we should move back, he points out the fact that I will have a degree in fashion and that there's no better place to put it to use than in New York - I guess he has me there, lol. Also, all my friends (who I miss to pieces) are back in New York as well as my daddy, big sister, niece, and a new niece or nephew which is on the way - I could pretty much pick back up from where I left off...but I'm so comfortable here. I like the little life that we have built together down here, we might not have much as we did in NY but we have each other, and that's all I need - but at the same time I understand that as a man he might feel as though he's not doing enough.

Is anyone else making a big move after tying the knot? Whether moving in together, to another town, another state or purchasing to home together?


4 comments :

AmyJean {Relentless Bride} said...

Not right after, but we are making plans to make sure that "home" for either of us is always in option! :)

My Dream Ring said...

I LOVE WHITNEY! She ROCKS, I hope she does well on her show, I will be watching!

Mrs. in May said...

ooh I didn't know about the new show, I love DVF and have been contemplating getting a classic DVF dress for the rehearsal. I am from NY and can definitely sympathize with the draw back there. Its a powerful place!

EliandMe said...

I have only seen the Hills once (and I was on a treadmill at the time) and to be honest I didn't quite get it, is it real or is it fake?

I know this probably isn't what you want to hear but I am deeply envious of your Florida vs New York decision! They both sound so glamourous to a little British girl!

I'm sure your heart will lead you in the right direction x

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